Fat singles dating

08 Feb

Dating is hard enough without having to navigate body issues and the spiritual deficits that come in the pockets of my size 16 jeans.

So as I’m covertly hiding the Snickers in my cart and contritely loading up my diet shakes, I take peace in remembering that God sees the heart.

Those who seemed nice in their profiles turn out to be total fuckboys after the first date.None of these things would be diminished because of my size, and yet none of them seem to matter because of my size.I once had a close friend confide in me that a boy I liked told her he could never date me, despite being “attracted to my personality,” because of my weight, because he was embarrassed by me.In my limited dating experience among believers, I can testify to the truth of Elna’s statement at the beginning of this post.Love isn’t even given a chance to grow without attraction, and when it seems that godliness is equated with an average BMI, I feel like I’ve lost this game before I even got a chance to play.