Why is dating younger men wrong

07 Dec

If I had a nickel for every time I heard that one...[quote]I attract mostly guys in their mid 20s looking for someone a little older. I'm not delusional enough to think I look early-mid 20s, but I can pass for a good 10 years younger. Guys in their 20s and 30s see me as one of their contempories.When I finally tell them the truth--that I'm old enough to be their father--they don't really care. It's a great thing not to look your age in the gay world, and I'm going to milk my great genetics as long as I can.The problem, though, is that such guys are often shy - practically homebodies - so they're hard to find.In my opinion, what's attractive in a guy in his 40s or older is that he's more likely to have his shit together, personally and professionally.They see me as a slightly older contemporary, as one of their peers.Being gay, if I was cursed to appear anywhere near my chronological age, I'd probably end it here and now r46 and you will be 45 on your birthday- It changes nothing and when you are 55 you will look 45-.Either you pony up with the cash, or settle for some schlub with a daddy complex.Otherwise, date someone your own age (I know, God forbid).[quote]I am most definitely not looking to be a sugar daddy or any kind of daddy for that matter.[quote]...preferably one that isn't promoting a fetish, like silver daddy or bears, etc.?

We talked about the age difference once and he said he thought it was hot.I'm 44, but look 34, thanks to very good genetics and a healthy lifestyle, and I attract mostly guys in their mid 20s looking for someone a little older.When I finally tell them the truth--that I'm old enough to be their father--they don't really care.OP, why not try your luck on a "normal" dating site and include your preference in your profile?No, R16, but I think some examination about 'not into guys my own age' is warranted.