Red flags in men when dating

10 Mar

If you’re already dating him: Don’t try to pump him up or find a job for him or offer insights into what you think he should do with his life.

This will only make him feel like a pathetic loser.

Instead, try to make him feel like a winner in all the other areas of his life.

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Show too much interest and he’ll be scared away, show not enough interest and he’ll be too afraid to make any moves, show just the right amount of interest and he’ll get bored.

Don’t stick around and try to prove him wrong, it’s a losing battle.

If you’re already dating him: Tell him something like “Look, I’m not into doing the casual, undefined thing.

If he feels great about himself when he’s around you, he’ll want to keep you around and he will make more of an effort to keep you in his life. It could take months or years for his situation to turn around.

Instead of thinking about how great everything will be when he gets himself sorted, take him as he is right here and now.